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Mourning Bling

The Victorian Habit of Wearing Grief as Jewelry

The Victorians had a flair for turning even the saddest moments into a fashion statement, and nothing says "I miss you" quite like wearing someone's hair in a necklace! Welcome to the fascinating world of mourning bling, where grief was transformed into glitz, and sorrow became a statement piece.


When Queen Victoria lost her beloved Prince Albert, she set the ultimate trend for the era: mourning fashion. Suddenly, every well-to-do Victorian was dressing head-to-toe in black, and mourning jewelry became all the rage. These weren't your average trinkets—Victorians took sentimentality to a whole new level by crafting brooches, lockets, and rings made from the hair of their dearly departed. Imagine carrying a tiny curl of Great Aunt Edna’s hair in a gold-etched locket—close to your heart forever, and oh-so-chic at the next garden party.


But it wasn’t just hair. Mourning jewelry often featured symbols of loss, like delicate forget-me-nots, weeping willows, and tiny gravestones. Black enamel, jet stones, and pearls represented tears, adding a touch of melancholic sparkle. It was jewelry with a purpose—not just to look pretty, but to wear your grief like a badge of honor, letting everyone know just how much you cared (and perhaps how fabulously you could accessorize your feelings).


The more elaborate the piece, the deeper the love—or at least, the deeper the pockets! If you were a wealthy Victorian, there was no such thing as grieving too ostentatiously. These morbid masterpieces were custom-made, each one a sentimental tribute and a reminder that even in mourning, the Victorians never missed a chance to dazzle.

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